How to Get Notified When Friend, Group Chat, Server Removes You on Discord

Discord doesn’t have a native feature to notify you when someone removes you as a friend or kicks you from a group orDiscord server. However, you can use third-party tools like BetterDiscord or Vencord to get these notifications. Here’s how they help:

Both tools will notify you when:

The two apps work similarly, so you may use whichever one you already have installed or choose based on your preference.

⚠️Warning:Both BetterDiscord and Vencord are third-party tools not officially endorsed by Discord, and using them may violateDiscord’s terms of service. While not all plugins breach Discord’s terms, the ones mentioned here are generally considered safe. Please do your due diligence.

Method 1: BetterDiscord with GuildAndFriendRemovalAlerts Plugin

BetterDiscord allows you to add custom plugins and themes to Discord. TheGuildAndFriendRemovalAlertsplugin notifies you when someone removes you from their friend list or kicks you from a server.

Once enabled, you will receive alerts whenever someone removes you as a friend, kicks you from a server, or if a server gets deleted. There are no customization options—enabling the plugin simply sends you notifications.

Note:If you need a removal history in addition to alerts, consider using theRemovedConnectionAlertsplugin available on BetterDiscord.

Method 2: Using Vencord with RelationshipNotifier Plugin

Vencord is another tool that enhancesDiscord. TheRelationshipNotifierplugin notifies you when someone removes you from their friend list or when you’re removed from a group chat or server.

Once enabled, you will start receiving alerts whenever a friend removes you or if you are removed from a group chat or server.

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Ravi Teja KNTS

Tech writer with over 4 years of experience at TechWiser, where he has authored more than 700 articles on AI, Google apps, Chrome OS, Discord, and Android. His journey started with a passion for discussing technology and helping others in online forums, which naturally grew into a career in tech journalism. Ravi’s writing focuses on simplifying technology, making it accessible and jargon-free for readers. When he’s not breaking down the latest tech, he’s often immersed in a classic film – a true cinephile at heart.

How to Get Notified When Friend, Group Chat, Server Removes You on Discord